8 signals that a Japanese woman wants you to “take a more aggressive approach!”

5. She touches you increasingly often, like tapping your shoulder or tugging on your sleeve

“I’ll casually increase the amount I touch him, so that he’ll notice me.” A woman may increase the frequency that she lightly touches you and waits for you to make your move. More aggressive women will bring their body in for close contact. But then again, for some women it’s normal behavior to stand close to others—it might be a good idea to check out how close she stands to other men before acting.