Do any men out there worry that, “I go out all the time, but women never try to talk to me…”? Chances are you’re giving off an air of unapproachability. When a Japanese girl is weighing up a guy, exactly what is it that makes her think, “I’d like to talk to him!”? We surveyed a group of Japanese women on, “9 Characteristics That Make Japanese Women Think ‘He Looks Friendly!’”
1. After making eye contact, he flashes a nice smile and introduces himself.
“Cheerful people always seem friendly, and that first greeting is very important.” Many Japanese women want to be able to relax and open up to other people. Be positive, but also remember that you risk being passed over if your expression is too serious or your smile is not very genuine.