9 Ways Men Can Deal with Self-centered Japanese Girls

2. Persuade her gently by saying, “I would do this for you, but it wouldn’t benefit you if I did.”

“I would talk back if he gave me a lecture or got upset with me.” Many women said they are willing to listen if guys remain calm and talk them out of their self-centeredness. Instead of saying something like, “Don’t put me on the spot,” which shows you are more concerned about yourself than about her, emphasize you are thinking about what’s in her best interest.