9 Ways Men Can Deal with Self-centered Japanese Girls

4. Chew her out as if you are talking to a family member by saying something like, “You’re a good person. You get it, right?”

“I find it cute when he acts like my big brother. It makes me want to listen to him.” Some women listen better when guys purposefully treat them like a beloved family member. However, this is inappropriate when talking to an older woman, as it may come off as belittling.