9 Things Thoughtful Guys Who Are Popular with Japanese Women Actually Do

3. He lets her know in advance when he’ll be unavailable to talk.


You’ll appear sincere in the eyes of some Japanese women when you let them know before you become unavailable to talk. This is because they recognize your effort to not make them feel sad or worried. A Japanese woman in her 20s gave an example: “When someone messages me and says things like, ‘I’ll be driving, so I won’t be able to answer my phone for awhile,’ I get a sense that he’s really considerate.” Even when you’re busy, you can still be attentive to her by saying something like, “I can’t talk now, but I’ll text you when I finish.”