The moment right before a Japanese girl loses her virginity can be a nervous time. If her body is stiff from anxiety, the sex won’t feel good and could actually hurt a Japanese girl. It’s best if her partner can help her relax for her first time. We surveyed our Japanese female readers to bring you phrases that can relax her when it’s her first time.
1. “It’s OK” and gently stroke her hair
“I get worried if he’s completely silent.” Make sure you pay attention to how she’s feeling, speak gently to her, and hug her. Be patient and don’t make any more advances until you know that she’s relaxed and she encourages you with a genuine smile or some other indication.