5. Tell her, “I’ve given a lot of thought to what we can do today, so leave it up to me!” to show that she can count on you.
Japanese women feel relieved when you have a plan for the day and are confident about it. A woman in her 20s told us, “I feel relaxed when my date has a plan, and I get the impression that he’s reliable.” Just invite her to follow your lead instead of explaining the details of your plan to her.