9 Bad Habits that Make Japanese Women Say “He’s Not a Bad Guy, But I Can’t Date Him!”

9. Making excuses for going dutch on the bill


“Even if I was planning on paying my part anyway, it is a major turn-off if he acts like a coward about it.” Splitting the bill isn’t itself a fatal sin, but women are repulsed if the man is too awkward about it. Don’t beg or plead, just toss out a simple “Shall we split the bill?” to include her in the decision.