9 signals that a Japanese girl has opened her heart to you

3. She’ll eat with the same spoon you used, unconcerned about “indirectly kissing” you


“I don’t think I could ever use the same spoon as a guy, if I didn’t like him as a person.” If a girl hasn’t opened up to a guy, then it’s not likely that she can instinctively accept indirectly kissing him by using his utensils, either.