9 Things You Say That Make Your Japanese Girlfriend Think “You Don’t Know Anything About Me.”

9. “You are definitely a masochist [or a sadist].”


“I don’t know what made him think this, but I don’t appreciate a guy telling me such a thing.” Women, especially shy types, will not appreciate you making assumptions about them. One reader said, “I don’t like being told nasty things like that.” These are things you shouldn’t discuss so lightly.