9 Moments When Your Japanese Girlfriends Feel Overshadowed by Their Boyfriends’ Exes

2. When she hears about the places he went with his ex on dates.


“I feel in the shadow of another woman when he talks about visiting these places.” Some women get anxious when guys talk about visiting the places where he went on dates with his ex. These kinds of stories carry romantic overtones and can make women wonder if you are nostalgic for the past. Don’t say anything more than that you’ve been there before—keep your story simple.