9 Unfair Ways Guys Start Breakup Talks with a Japanese girlfriend

When you decide to break up with your Japanese girlfriend, how the talk goes can influence whether your relationship will end on a good note. What kind of breakup lines do Japanese girls find unreasonable? We asked Japanese girls to tell us nine unfair ways guys start breakup talks.

1. He starts off with a contradictory statement, like “I like you, but…”


“We don’t need to break up if he likes me! It would feel better if he told me he didn’t like me anymore.” You may have chosen these words because you don’t want to hurt your Japanese girlfriend, but she might not get it. It’s better for the both of you if you steel yourself to tell the truth.