9 Qualities You Need to Make a Japanese Woman Want to Go Out for a Drink with You When You’ve Just Met

6. Don’t show your ulterior motive.


“I won’t go for a drink with guys who seem desperate. I really care whether he has ulterior motive or not,” stressed a Japanese woman in her 20s. Ensuring their safety is a priority for many Japanese women. Don’t mention that you are experienced before you get to know her well. It’s better to play it down so she doesn’t put up her guard.