The Gap Between Perception and Reality: What Japanese Women Find Attractive

You’ve probably experienced it once or twice yourself: you meet someone and form an opinion about her, but just then, you witness something totally unexpected from her and your heart skips a beat. The bigger the gap is, the greater the effect of capturing someone’s heart. Today, based on the survey responses collected from single Japanese women, we set out to find what kind of perception gaps are melting women’s hearts these days.

1. He acts like an airhead, but I saw him deeply immersed in his work.


Many Japanese women are attracted to men who are diligent at their work. It’s a reflection of how driven and determined you are in achieving your goals. Especially if she has never seen your serious side, she’ll be amazed at your transformation. Take a break from being the funny guy for once, and show her how hard you genuinely work.