The Gap Between Perception and Reality: What Japanese Women Find Attractive

2. He is cool and collected in public, but fawns over me in private.


Show her a side of you that you don’t share with others. She’ll certainly enjoy the exclusive feeling. Some Japanese women told us that men who act tough in public and innocent and childlike in private present an interesting gap and are fun to be with. The bigger the gap is, the greater the impact you can expect.