2. “I’m going to be famous!” You dream big, but you don’t put any effort in.
You want to be a singer-songwriter or a CEO, yet you aren’t doing anything to make your dream come true. As the relationship progresses, your Japanese girlfriend will start to worry about your future together. She’ll find it difficult to plan a future together if she doesn’t see you making an effort to achieve your goals. If you have a plan for your future, fill her in on the details and get her support.