8. She thinks you just don’t want to be the bad guy because you only think about avoiding conflicts
“I got turned off the moment I realized how his mind works.” Japanese girls think men who make their girlfriends do the breaking up don’t care about their partners. On the other hand, some might argue that avoiding conflict shows that you do care for your partner. However, when you are breaking up with someone, your half-hearted kindness can do more harm than good.