9 Moments When a Japanese Girlfriend Starts to Feel Insecure; “Is He Just Settling by Being With Me?”

3. When he’s late in replying to your emails, even on days off

“When he’s hard to get hold of even on days when he’s not working, it makes me feel that I’m not very important to him.” So, to make sure your girlfriend doesn’t feel insecure, make a point of replying to her emails on your days off.