5. She can see him having fun telling his friends daft stories.
“If I see him playing around with his friends, I think to myself, ‘Hey! I want to be his friend too!’” Some Japanese women feel compelled to say hello to guys who look like they’re having a good time. But remember that most women are turned off if the conversation is too rude or the roughhousing too intense, so make sure you create an atmosphere that suits the current situation.