7. “Let’s go talk over some beer. I have all night free for you.”
You show your willingness to listen to her for as long as she needs. “I don’t want anymore dark clouds over me. I will definitely go. I want to talk about it and forget it,” smiles one Japanese woman in her 20s. “Rather than treating me like something fragile, I’d appreciate him insisting on taking me out for a drink,” explains another Japanese woman in her 30s. If she’s dying to move on and put things behind, she’ll welcome your offer. However, some women prefer to be somber while they process the breakup by themselves. Make sure you know which type she is before you ask her out.