4. When her boyfriend casually offers to carry her bags while shopping.
A Japanese woman feels secure when her boyfriend’s considerate gestures make her feel spoiled. “It makes me so happy when he treats me to things like that,” mentioned a Japanese woman in her 20s. Take good care of your girlfriend, such as letting her know you are there to help her with things that require a lot of manual work. This way, she’ll know that you’re looking out for her.