3. He invited her out casually for a drink when she broke up with her boyfriend.
You have a better chance of making a Japanese woman who is out of your league fall for you right after she breaks up with her boyfriend. “I was lonely because my ex and I had just broken up. He reached out to me at the perfect time,” explained a woman in her 20s. Start by getting close to her as a friend. Suggest going out for drinks to cheer her up when she tells you that her relationship is over.