9 Boyfriends Who Are Totally Unreliable When Japanese Girlfriends Need Them

5. “I’m tired too.” You don’t take her issue seriously.


“I’m worried that he’s going to say the same thing when I really need his help.” If you don’t make time to listen and support her, soon she’ll assume that you’ll be unreliable in a crunch. If you have a legitimate reason for not making time for her, suggest alternatives. “I’m not feeling well today, but how about we talk things over tomorrow at lunch?” She’ll appreciate your willingness to suggest an alternative.