8 Inappropriate and Upsetting Things Guys Say During a Break-up with a Japanese Girl

2. Asking her to give you back the money you spent on the relationship, like “I need the present back”


“Is he serious? This makes me question his entire personality.” You were generous when your relationship was going well, but you suddenly change your attitude and become stingy. This is just asking for trouble. Remind yourself that a gift is a gift, unless you feel that your girlfriend used you as a wallet.