5. Predicting tough times ahead for her, like “I’m sure you won’t have it easy”
“He said, ‘It’ll be hard to find a new guy at your age.’ Who does he think he is?” It’s offensive to make negative predictions about her future. After all, she might be better off now you’re not in her life anymore! A more mature way of handing the situation would be to wish her well, by saying something like “I’m sure you will find a better guy,” even if the odds seem stacked against it.