3. When she discovers that her ex is getting married.
The longer the relationship lasted, the harder it is for her to swallow the news. “I thought I had no regrets but I felt crashed,” admitted one Japanese woman in her 20s. The initial shock is unbearable, especially if the relationship was serious before it dissolved. However, don’t underestimate the power of adversity. Some women may get fired up and go seek their true love for themselves.