3. He looks rough, but he’s a gentleman.
“I always thought he was rowdy and rugged, but he treated me like a lady. I lost my ability to talk for a second!” recalls one Japanese woman in her late 20s. The more anxious she is about the way you come off, imagine the relief she’ll get when you treat her with fragility. If you’ve been told in the past that you look intimidating, learn some suave manners to impress ladies.