8. “We’re gonna’ get you out every day until you find a new boyfriend.”
You gather your forces together with your friends and keep her busy until she’s over her breakup. “The time passed so fast when we were having fun, I didn’t even think about my ex!” a surprised Japanese woman in her 20s tells us. “Right after a breakup, I distrust men in general, so it’ good to get out with a bunch of friends,” voices a Japanese woman in her early 20s. If she’s looking for a change of pace in her life, having group events will definitely take her mind off of her breakup. By taking the initiative to plan fun events, you’ll be her superhero, but may still fall short as a boyfriend candidate. When she seems to be back to her normal self, ask her to go out, just the two of you. Don’t mess up your timing!