9 Ways to Scold a Japanese Woman and Make Her Think, “This Is The Man For Me!”

When you’re in a relationship, skillfully “scolding” a woman can help you gain her trust. However, if you do it wrong, she can withdraw, and may even hold it against you forever. After surveying 300 Japanese female readers in their twenties, we present their suggestions for 9 ways to scold a Japanese woman and make her think, “This is the man for me!”

1. Calmly and even-handedly scold her, and do it with a little smile.

“When he scolds me without sounding angry, it makes me want to listen to what he’s saying.” It is easier to listen to a calm voice than an aggressive one.