9 Moments When Japanese Girls Are Grateful to Have Their Ex-Boyfriends as Close Friends

5. When she can open up to him about family problems she can’t discuss with her friends.


“He also knows my family. He helped me cope when my mom was sick.” You can be there for your ex-girlfriend in times of serious trouble. When she talks to you about her concerns, don’t pity her by saying “that must have been hard for you,” because it can sound patronizing. Instead, empathize with how she feels.