9 Ways to Secure a Second Date When the First Date Didn’t Go So Well

2. Focus on what she enjoys: “Why don’t we go to X next time? You wanted to go there, right?”


Even when your first date doesn’t go well, you can still leave a good impression by ending the date with a thoughtful suggestion. “I appreciated his suggestion because it means that he thought about what I might enjoy,” mentioned a Japanese woman in her 20s. Don’t forget to set a date before you go home so she can be excited about your next meeting.