After dating for a while and you begin to feel comfortable with each other, your relationship may start to become stale. You may also feel that you don’t have to try as hard to please her. If you’ve been slacking off on date planning (and many other things), you may start to lose her interest. Your Japanese girlfriend may even be accumulating a laundry list of dissatisfactions. Today, based on a survey we conducted, we’ll introduce you to some of the telltale signs that women notice and which prove to them that you are unprepared for your date.
1. You ask her “So, where do you want to go?”
“I guess he has no intention of taking charge of the date. How disappointing.” If you put all of the responsibility for planning the date on her, she will write you off as not trying hard enough. If you are unable to come up with an idea, ask her in advance what she may be interested in. You should at least have some kind of a frame work for your day.