4. Make a positive comment about her insecurities, such as being short: “Personally, I think short girls are cute.”
You can flatter a Japanese woman by speaking positively about something she may feel insecure about. A woman in her 20s said, “I feel more confident when someone compliments me on things I don’t like about myself.” Nonetheless, it’s important to note that some women don’t want others to talk about their insecurities. Make sure to observe her reactions as you engage in conversation.