3. “If you don’t make noise I can’t get excited.”
“I don’t want to have to force myself to be loud.” Even if certain sounds turn you on, don’t pressure your partner to perform for you. If she’s shy and doesn’t want to moan or talk dirty, accept that not everyone is aroused by the same things. You can still whisper a few sexy remarks in her ear or be as vocal as you’d like, but she will feel more secure and relaxed knowing that she can be herself in the moment.