9. You don’t look at her past.
“He knows that I had a serious relationship with my ex, but he accepts it as being part of my past,” one 20-something Japanese woman says with a sigh of relief. Regardless of her past relationships, your willingness to accept her as a whole, past and all, will touch her heart. You live in the present and look forward to your future with her. Nothing good will come from dwelling on her past. If you want to enjoy your time with her, be ready to move on, and build a better relationship for the future.