3. You feel proud of each other’s successes and feel as if they’re your own.
“I’ve never felt much of anything if it didn’t involve me, but with him, I feel so proud of his achievements. It’s like his successes are shared and bring me the same satisfaction as my own,” confesses one Japanese woman in her 20s. When she can be truly happy for you, that’s when she feels fate guiding her relationship. Don’t selfishly chase after only your own happiness. Being able to share happiness together is much more fulfilling.