9. Your values are in sync with hers.
“When I discovered that we share similar values, I realized that he was the one for me. I felt that I’d waited this long so I could meet him,” proclaims one Japanese woman in her 30s. A partner with a similar set of values is going to be the ideal individual for you. You don’t have to share the exact same values and ideas, but being able to agree on many issues will guarantee smooth sailing throughout your relationship.