9 Reasons Why a Japanese girlfriend Couldn’t Get Over Her Ex

3. “If we are both single in 10 years, let’s get married.”


“I know it doesn’t mean anything, but it stuck in my head and I can’t get over him.” Your last suggestive statement is tugging on her heart and preventing her from seeing the relationship as truly over. It’s irresponsible and inconsiderate for you to suggest something that is unlikely to happen. Be considerate. Don’t make any suggestions or empty promises that may keep her hanging on.