9 Qualities You Need to Make a Japanese Woman Want to Go Out for a Drink with You When You’ve Just Met

8. Share her interests and show her that you will have a lot to talk about.


Japanese women look for common topics of conversation when they go for a drink with someone they don’t know well. “My biggest concern is not having anything to talk about and having awkward silences,” confessed a Japanese woman in her 20s. Figure out the best conversational topics by learning about her hobbies, where she comes from, and what she does for work early on in your conversation.