4. Handwritten letters your ex gave you on your anniversary or after a fight
“I think letters carry weight because they have sentimental value. I think he’s not over her if he still keeps them.” Women react sensitively to items that hint at a strong bond between their boyfriends and their exes. You can’t just pretend to have forgotten about it. You may have to get rid of them in a way that satisfies your girlfriend, like ripping them up in front of her.