7. He showed her a different side of himself when he was alone with her.
Some Japanese women fall for a guy when they see a different side of him that he doesn’t usually show. “He’s usually cold, but with me, he does really nice things out of the blue. My heart races every time he does that,” said a Japanese woman in her 20s. If a Japanese woman thought that you were unapproachable when she first met you, she will be even more surprised when you show a softer side to her.