8. He attends singles parties and is secretly looking to meet someone new.
“Why does he attend singles parties when he has a girlfriend?” “He shouldn’t stare at other women when he’s with me.” Women’s egos get hurt when their boyfriend seems uncertain about how he feels about her. When your girlfriend picks up on your need to cheat, apologize sincerely to her. If she sees that you really care about her, you may be able to turn her disappointment into hope. However, “clear violations of rules” are out of the question. For example, “He went to a spa with another woman and lied that he had to play golf with clients.”