6. You happen to get time alone with her.
It was supposed to be an outing with a group of friends, but everyone canceled at the last minute. That is, everyone but the two of you. You are left alone with her and worry that this moment is going to quickly turn awkward. Or is it? “I was supposed to set up the event and I ended up working together with him. When it was done, I felt the urge to spend more time with him,” recalls one Japanese woman in her late teens. Another Japanese woman remembers one incident, “I happened to sit next to him on the extreme roller coaster. I think it worked its magic!” Regardless of what the situation may be, spending time together in an intimate setting can bring the two of you closer.