7. You told her something that you rarely talk about.
You weren’t particularly close to her, but one day, out of blue, you decided to tell her something you had never talked about. She is captivated by this never-before-seen side of you and wants to get to know you more. “I always thought he was an introvert. One day, he told me that he’s in a rock band. I was fascinated by this side I never knew,” reveals one Japanese woman in her late teens. “He was just an acquaintance, but one day we started to talk about our family issues. Before I knew it, I was drawn so completely to him,” remembers another Japanese woman in her late 20s. It’s not unusual for a new love interest to bloom when a woman glimpses your hidden side.