3. You share the same interests and enjoy talking about them together.
You happen to share the same hobby with her, and before long, you are having a blast talking with her. Having similar tastes in art, entertainment, or sports is one of the shortest paths to a relationship. “I don’t have very many male friends who share the same hobby, so when I discovered he liked the same things, both our conversations and our feelings went to a whole new level,” recalls one Japanese woman in her late teens. Another Japanese woman in her 20s states, “When we crack each other up talking, I start to think that we share the same sense of humor.” Through a casual conversation she can sense a whole lot of things about you. Try talking with her at length so you can get to know each other.