8 Roundabout Ways Japanese Girls Say No to a Date

8. “I really hate it when guys are pushy.”

If you’re talking with a girl after asking her out and she says something like this, you can interpret that as a no. “It’s hard to say ‘Quit being so pushy!’ straight to a guy’s face, so I’ll give him the message by pretending I’m talking about someone else.” Apparently, some Japanese girls feel this way.