5. “You said you like this, right?” Remember what she liked.
“I probably mentioned it in passing and he remembered it. How sweet!” a young Japanese woman in her late teens cheerfully recalls. Because you want to know everything about her, you study what she likes and dislikes. It indicates to her that you have a special fondness towards her. You may even add, “I like it too, so I bought a matching pair,” hinting at a possible relationship on the horizon.