3. Rare findings.
“Talk about putting time and effort into finding a gift for me! You don’t have to be a genius to figure the rest out,” reveals one Japanese woman who received sweets for her birthday that often sell out or are hard to find. In some cases, your behind the scenes effort is what makes all the difference in the world. While you want her to know the trouble you went through to get the gift, don’t go on and on babbling about the process, or she’ll find it too condescending.