7. “He doesn’t deserve it.” You talk trash about your successful friend.
Once you’re through the puppy love stage, she will start to look at what you’re like as a human being. If you’re unable to be happy for your friend and applaud his success, she may think you’re bitter and jealous. Even if you know about your friend’s not-so-perfect past, try focusing on his present success and give him the respect and praise he’s earned for his recent achievements. She’ll be touched by your genuine friendship.