5. Be attractive in a mysterious way.
Some Japanese women are attracted to mysterious guys who don’t talk much about themselves. “I wonder if I could get to know him better over a drink,” said a Japanese woman in her 20s. The key here is to make her want to get to know you. However, being too mysterious can also give the impression that you are dangerous and cause Japanese women to be guarded. Therefore, it’s important to keep it understated.